The risky part of kinky life
We live in a world where others can unbalance a perfect life by putting light on what we do in the shadows. With over three decades of public presence, I got to participate in five court cases where BDSM was used in a way to show that a person had bad morals and because of […]
KECC
The KECC was one of the initiatives to promote consent and bring a code of ethics to kink, aimed at presenters, teachers, educators, and those in that realm. The original English version is available here: https://www.thekecc.org/KECC-for-educators.pdf I began to work on a French version available here — it’s not finished.
Limitation in porn production.
These are some content creation guidelines that some hosting services follow — call it ethical porn. Some are based on real guidelines from major credit card companies, which are the key players for any website that wants to make money. Others are based on brand protection. When people search for things like CNC and snuff, […]
Blood and Wax
I love experimenting with new things. But after a few decades, you need to think harder to find new toys or ways to create sensation. Last play at the collaring of a friend at a private party, we planned to play bloody. Everything was planned — we brought the right tools, and the dungeon allowed […]
Why did Tension, succeed.
A good approach for kink can be taken from the survival of Tension. This is useful for any commercial venue. Tension is not the first kinky entity in that location — it is in fact the 3rd. The first was Fetish4Play by Victoria. It was the first community center of sorts — her place, divided […]
Kinky porn
Porn is mostly the world of vanilla — some companies have made edgy projects. If you look at Kink.com’s catalog you will find a soft side of kink porn: bondage, light impact, restriction, humiliation, and lots of sex. BDSM porn is a niche that only a few will seek out, so for a production company […]
Role reversal
Not sure if it’s me or if something has changed on FetLife. I noticed in one week, in my city, three posts about subs with predatory tendencies who play the victim and try to reverse the role to put the blame on the top. Not sure if it’s the beginning of the return of the […]
Time passes so fast.
When you are busy with life, time passes so fast. I see seasons like weeks. I have a dog who is not yet 2 years old and already 130 lbs, a new/old place called home, and I will get a car next month. I work a lot and have many little side projects — from […]
Money in kink
Want to make money from kink? Here are some ideas and things to think about. Owner — owning a place is a great way to make money by renting it for events. Renting for various reasons is great, but you need to be careful. On the private side, if you make too much noise, someone […]
Aging and evolving, an update
I was lucky to have a long kinky life in the same community. This allowed me to see some changes from within. An example: rope took 20 years to take a central place in Montreal. Then came the emergence of puppy play and ABDL. The increase in prices for events, but that follows everything else. […]