My back who was damage by many years of bad treatment in the military and an incident about 6 years ago.

The sciatic nerve was touch and the pain is very bad some time.

This time was different, I lost control and sensation in my left legs. Now I am doing well, but cannot still feel my big toe.

I did my first CT scan at the hospital. After 9 hours on the hospital bed. I passed 4 days without sleeping and eating… yay I lost weight.

Funny how the medical people do not want us to have good pain killer like vicodine. I that time I will have loved morphine, but I got Tylenol.

Funny things, my neighbors got the same things at the same time, but related to a car crash.

Now fixed, I prepare  my travel for Shibaricon, NYC and Denver.

A friend of mine was injure by some one who do not know how to do fireplay Sadly is too late for her, she will get a scar.

My motorcycle is out, I drive it to the garage for maintenance her 40k. and a nice clean up.

Not like Fetlife, but some thing different and some time not related.

So I approach a sponsor to do the same here.

http://www.bdsm-montreal.com/i/

Not let see, if people will use it. People will update it.

This is the 3 calendar I installed with that purpose, the 2 first was more a private one.

This will be more a community one if work.

If you own a blogs and you are part of the montreal reagion will be great if you can add this has a frame or a link to your site.

Thanks

2. You are an adult and you are responsible for your own safety.

3. BDSM Negotiation is about finding your personal happiness and fulfillment this work both ways.

4. Setting a safe word its a good things, But RED is universal.

5. Limits, Basic negotiation 101, Dom can explain the game, Bottom will agree and can set rules too.

6. Any one can make mistake, work to not repeat them.

7.Air, blood circulation, Nerf compression are some things to know and understand.

I was lucky to teach with a  bottom who I found very attractive and fun to hand with, but she so not a bottom.

I Take a class from Midori on humiliation and few hint for whip play, play a little in the rope room.

I did an improvise performance with a couple, was nice but very very improvise.

But the drive is so long, next time probably plane.

The Experiment

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Did_the_monkey_banana_and_water_spray_experiment_ever_take_place

This is a good example how social information can pass true generation without knowing the origination of it, and some time the miss information.

I use that similarity with people with the issue with people who panic when a flogger hit the spine of the kidney. No I don’t believe you can arm any one with a flogger on the back with a normal use. But people continue to pass this message that came from X with no point of origin and good argument with it.

Spanking is the most notorious play in the S&M, and for me I very enjoy doing a good spanking. I am a manual guy after all.

My hand is hard, with a heavy arm, even if the goal is about sensation and not pain, I like to know that my partner will remember me for few days.

I also enjoy challenge, or a girl telling me to spank harder, In the last 20 years I found lots of different girl who can take the strongest it, and enjoy them, even be turn on by that. Chatalie was even  able to orgasm from it.

Hand or ass cheek is the strongest, I will say proudly that in 20 years and few hundred of play I found only 2 girls able to take my hand at full strength. who is fun for me to be able to go with the energy of the moment. The first one  was Vk a sub that I was seing once in a  while, like every 2 years, Very masochist one. At one of the salon amour et seduction, we play has a demonstration. We play for 1h, flogging for warmup and begin the spanking of a live time for an other 1h. At the end I told her RED, my hand hurt. I exploded a vein in my hand. I never saw some thing like that.

Last night playing with a bottom who tell to every one that she cannot bruise, I challenge her for a 10 hit spank. With very little warmup , I begin to give her a taste of my hand. Giving every thing I can, I saw only a little bruise 1mm x 10mm. My hand was feeling the spanking also. I give her after a good spanking for the fun this time. But she told me that she get a spank since 12. So she well train.

I got a nice hotel, very down town of the main city. I walked around to see that this neighborhood his the art district also.

Fashion store, great line head office but also art galleries every corner.

First event, The pansexual party at the San Francisco Citadel, helping has a DM allow me to meet new people, share knowledge about law and practice in there donjon.

First difference they close at 1am, sex his allow but condom is by law obligatory and recommended for oral sex.Weapon can be use has a recreationnal tools, good luck with that one even with a knife.

I met few friend, Psycokitty who I met few years back at Shibaricon.

So far great community, great party, great people.

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Day 2

Was a nice day again, for them last night was the coldness night ever in this region. For me was a cold summer night.

The day begin with a walk in the Golden gate park, with the plan to assist to a whip practice event. Only few show up, I learned new things about whips maker, and also there whips community.

The day ended whit a nice diner with a new friend at a French restaurant, learned few things about lots of European things.

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Day 3

Was about a good walk in the port and seeing the Aquarium

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Day 4

Day begin with the visite with a tour guide about the gay village, but was more then that. Learning about the architecture and history of that part of the town, who was also a big part of the gay right history. I taken times to go sex shopping, purchase few news toys. I end the day with a diner with Jay wiseman and ask him to sign my book of him. I great exchange on lots of topics.

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Day 5

Break time, after few days of touring around I decided to relax today, just mailed some post card, and sleep a lots. I Was just having a social meeting for diner and a play party. The wicked was great, food was amazing also. The cat club was a blast. I did lots of suspension with new people. Met my contact for kink.com. And I so fall for a girl, great chemistry, so gorgeous and sensual, very rare that a fall for a girl with short hair.

First days without pictures. But lots of great souvenir in my mind.

I was celebrating with Cirque de Boudoir party at Bain Mathieu. Has usual a great party, lots of fun, lots of suspension on my side.

Was nice to see people that we see once in a while and on nice dress .

Today I got 5 booking for flesh hook suspension, I think that will be the record of a one day rigging.

I begin to work on a new things, a kind of a Popsicle base on a dong. Cost me a fortune to make to mold. At least I will have that out of my head.

Base from silicone a make a good thickness added some water, and now I will wait to tomorrow how this turn out.

I also try an Edison bulb on my violet wand, nice effect but not sensation, those are made from vacuum and not an inert gas.

http://1000bulbs.com/product/1935/IN-F1900.html

This year I put my energies in “The Center”, lots of new workshop. Lots of fun and new faces.

I did lots of flesh hook suspension also this year, some very intense, some with friends. In a way I am still scare of needle, but begin to want to try it.

I begin also to do more photoshoot on my side, proud of some pictures. Still need to work on my skill, ideas and photoshop to make it better.

Torture gardent Toronto and MBE and NBL was great moment for me, was nice to share it with friends.

Was also a hard time, jobs wise, heart wise ect…

With the new job, I got the chance to by for my self lots of new toys, camera, fix my bike, new computer and server.

I got the chance to help on 2 new cases also related to bdsm in court, they are not finish but so far we did the best we could.

Plan for Next year, loosing weight, traveling more, more photoshoot, more workshop, want to practice my hypnotics things also.

Maybe found a new place for the workshop and doing nights also, will see.

He try to point out workshop and educator, when working for him few years back, I was piss when I was giving  workshop and he  was giving the publicity about it to an other group, why, simply to help his ex-gf start his new things. Stealing visibility to the one who was doing it. I was the workshop coordinator for many years for his main event, He never put money on that side of the event. After few years showing the revenue of hit, strangely we begin to disagree.

When safety is approach, I pointed out that he prefer to use undercover DM(people who report things to him) AKA snitch. When he wanted to use that the second  year with the DM team I put in place year before. He  prefer to hide any kind of play for the event fearing incident and mostly issue with insurance. That he forget to take for few years, never got the chance to see if he was having some.

Few years back I asked him to help me with a bdsm and law issue, when going in court to defend my rights, he say yes, but never show up at the bar. After our relationship got worse. Funny to see him  pushing people to fight for BDSM and him always promoting but never putting to the act.

The only fight he will fight is when is revenue is in danger.

A part of my 2c.

For me was also a great opportunity to see some one important to who I got distant in this year.

I pass the week-end with her, photoshoot play and going out. I got a great time, and she got a good souvenir.

My spanking at the NBL was probably one of the most intense I provided, for fun, but also the leave a souvenir behind.

I am very glad of the picture taken that day!