Year: 2013

Pain

Last month at Bound in Boston I made a bad move, and a recurring issue came back. But in a way it was worth it — a very nice play session with Ai. My back was damaged by many years of rough treatment in the military and an incident about six years ago. The sciatic […]

Calendar.

In one of my travels I was lucky to find a website local to where I was, listing kinky events. Not like FetLife, but something different and sometimes not directly related. So I approached a sponsor to do the same here: http://www.bdsm-montreal.com/i/ Now let’s see if people will use it and keep it updated. This […]

Golden Rules

1. Communication — if you don’t verbalize an issue or a “no,” most Doms are not mind readers. 2. You are an adult and you are responsible for your own safety. 3. BDSM negotiation is about finding your personal happiness and fulfillment — this works both ways. 4. Setting a safeword is a good thing, […]

Spanking

I am a physical person who enjoys physical play. Spanking is the most well-known activity in S&M, and I very much enjoy giving a good spanking. I am a hands-on person, after all. My hand is hard with a heavy arm — even when the goal is sensation rather than pain, I like knowing my […]

San Francisco

An amazing first day. I got a nice hotel right in the heart of downtown. I walked around and discovered that the neighbourhood is also the arts district — fashion stores, great company head offices, and art galleries on every corner. First event: the pansexual party at the San Francisco Citadel. Helping as a DM […]

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