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Aging in the BDSM community.

by on Jun.02, 2019, under Uncategorized

Last week I met a new play partner, who during our first meeting we exchange stories.

She told me, that she has to leave her previous master because of Alzheimer issue, was beginning to show some confusion issue who lead to forgetting about her safeword. A sad story for sure. But at least nothing bad happen.

Make me think, will you realize that you get too old for some of the things we do. Some activity needs to be physically able to do some of the things and others need a sharp mind.

Bottom for suspension is an example, this put lots of stress on the body, young one heal and regenerate faster.

For me doing whips, I can feel in my joint and muscle telling me, that this exercise put more and more stress. I injured my self a few months ago giving a spanking. I was a good spanker, a heavy one I will say, now I need to go slower and use tools like paddles.

Also even if olds player remains in the scene, the pool of people is younger, 10 years difference is not that bad, 20 is limits, 30 years difference begins to show some issue to some peoples.

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