Spanking

I am a physical person who enjoys physical play.

Spanking is the most well-known activity in S&M, and I very much enjoy giving a good spanking. I am a hands-on person, after all.

My hand is hard with a heavy arm — even when the goal is sensation rather than pain, I like knowing my partner will remember me for a few days.

I also enjoy a challenge, or a girl telling me to spank harder. In the last 20 years I have found many different women who can take the strongest hits and enjoy them — some even turned on by it. Chatalie was even able to orgasm from it.

Hand to ass cheek is the strongest. I will say proudly that in 20 years and hundreds of sessions, I have only found two women able to take my hand at full strength. That is fun for me — being able to go with the energy of the moment. The first was VK, a sub I saw once in a while, roughly every two years — a very masochistic one. At one of the Salon Amour et Séduction events, we played as a demonstration. We played for one hour — flogging for warmup, then began the spanking of a lifetime for another hour. At the end I called RED. My hand hurt. I had burst a vein in my hand. I had never seen anything like that.

Last night playing with a bottom who tells everyone she cannot bruise, I challenged her to a ten-hit spanking. With very little warmup I began giving her a taste of my hand, giving everything I had — and I only saw a small bruise, about 1mm x 10mm. My hand was feeling it too. I gave her a proper spanking after that, just for fun. But she told me she has been getting spanked since she was 12 years old — so she is well conditioned.