I am a physical being who enjoy the physical play.
Spanking is the most notorious play in the S&M, and for me I very enjoy doing a good spanking. I am a manual guy after all.
My hand is hard, with a heavy arm, even if the goal is about sensation and not pain, I like to know that my partner will remember me for few days.
I also enjoy challenge, or a girl telling me to spank harder, In the last 20 years I found lots of different girl who can take the strongest it, and enjoy them, even be turn on by that. Chatalie was even able to orgasm from it.
Hand or ass cheek is the strongest, I will say proudly that in 20 years and few hundred of play I found only 2 girls able to take my hand at full strength. who is fun for me to be able to go with the energy of the moment. The first one was Vk a sub that I was seing once in a while, like every 2 years, Very masochist one. At one of the salon amour et seduction, we play has a demonstration. We play for 1h, flogging for warmup and begin the spanking of a live time for an other 1h. At the end I told her RED, my hand hurt. I exploded a vein in my hand. I never saw some thing like that.
Last night playing with a bottom who tell to every one that she cannot bruise, I challenge her for a 10 hit spank. With very little warmup , I begin to give her a taste of my hand. Giving every thing I can, I saw only a little bruise 1mm x 10mm. My hand was feeling the spanking also. I give her after a good spanking for the fun this time. But she told me that she get a spank since 12. So she well train.
