Age has always been a concern for me. I do not like being an old guy — I was born with an old soul. I saw time going too fast.
My birthday is very soon and I plan to keep it very simple, no travel this time. I am taking a few days off, plan to study and go out with my girl. Possibly do a certification in climbing.
At the last munch, age was a subject. Sometimes I believe the age difference in a couple is not healthy in a way. When I started in the public community, most of my play partners and subs were not far from twice my age at that time — at least 10 years more. It was normal; I was the new meat, the newbie — young players were rare.
Not an issue at all to be with a slave older than me; both are over 18, no sex, only play in public. In some other relationships I sometimes saw a couple with a man of 60 with a sub of about 20. Last year I would have told you this is normal — he has experience — and I would have defended my point with lots of other arguments. But now I am not so sure anymore. A BDSM relationship is very close to a normal relationship; they share common bonds and intimacy. A debate worth having with Freud and some psychologists.
A nice picture of Lucy Lawless, a Xena slave, the dream of lots of men.
