I saw a discussion on a forum about questions to ask a dominant: who taught him, who he practiced on, etc.
So this will be my little résumé in the BDSM world.
I began many years ago, in private and on the net.
Afterwards I was a little fan of the fetish café and the Cream on St-Laurent — now known as Le Syndrome. Café Cléopâtre was also doing burlesque nights. At that time I was more a voyeur than a player. Learning.
I met one of my first subs — a 24/7 — at Fetish Montréal, at a big loft in St-Henri. I learned lots of things there. I still remember some of the nice equipment at that place.
A couple of years later we opened a place in Verdun — me and 4 other masters, not far from a police station. I learned not to trust others with money. I was in charge of the door and was the dungeon master. This place did not survive for many reasons, but mainly because the others were not good with money. This was the first time we saw Midori in Montréal.
A few years after that I learned about Le Château, a swinger club doing fetish events. A girl named Elie was the promoter of this event — by invitation only at first, with a very strict dress code. This was the place where we turned away the most people.
At the same time my girlfriend was doing side shows for some events — I learned fireplay from her.
I was a client at first, then I tried to help the best I could. I gave the introduction many times, initiated lots of newbies, and began doing a little dungeon keeping. I began doing some small workshops. This was the place where I began to enjoy sharing knowledge.
JP, the owner, closed Le Château for many good reasons. He became my neighbour in Village Olympique. He took a break for about a year — it was the time of Victoria and her Fetish4Play. Lots of seminars at that nice place.
I did some pro domination for couples at first to try, then for money.
I began to help Isabeau and Sébastien with their fetish event — helping to set up the dungeon, place the equipment, sometimes repaint and repair some of the equipment. And play a lot.
Victoria was leaving her place and I told JP it would be a nice spot to start a new dungeon. He finally took the loft next to Victoria’s — a little bigger. I took Elie’s place promoting the fetish event and acting as dungeon master. This was like a second home.
Now I help Le Manoir du Bougainvillier and do shows for Clubsin as well as many workshops. I have helped with 2 kinky festivals and fetish weekends.
